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Old Jan 12, 2014, 01:00 AM
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Originally Posted by psychmajortwenty2 View Post
I need other reasons/tips too. Is there like.. some kind of meditation or music? or distraction? Or I don't know?! HELP!
Distractions, is what you seem to need advice for. To get your mind off of it! It's not always, easy, but you've gotta do, what you've gotta do.

Spend too much time, in the disappointment feeling, your brain could miswire and sense disappointment in other areas of your relationship, if that makes any sense?

You are wanting this so bad, and fantasizing about it, so much, that logistical reality is bringing you further down, emotionally speaking, than necessary. Remind yourself, this isn't about the sex, as you say.
Thanks for this!
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