How does she get to the sessions? Does she have to be dragged there? It took me a few years to be able b feel relaxed enough to even start to talk to my T. Maybe at the moment it is an achievement that she even goes to the sessions. It may feel so difficult for her that she needs her music etc to help her. l am not sure whether the T is male or female, but although of course l am not a T, l could imagine having a female T may potentially very triggering, not necessarily a bad thing, but l could see how trust / abandonment could be an issue.

It's great that you are trying to help her in this way. Soup