I have stopped using the squirt bottle, in fact I only squirted her once because she told me "I dare you to." She spent the weekend with her dad and actually came home with a decent attitude. Which is highly unusual, and I'll take it. Last week she did really good with getting up and going to school without giving me a fight. I understand that this is going to continue until she realizes how she is acting and starts caring about herself and others. I really could use some ideas as to how to give her consequences for being both good and bad. If anyone has suggestions for healthy consequences I would appreciate them.