As Angel stated, if you are taking an Antidepressant that can cause anorgasmia where you just can't reach an orgasm, but this jumped out at me:
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Originally Posted by balansd
During my marriage sex was almost not at all, I masturbated 10X more than we had sex.
Now I am having huge issues with cumming. I can't seem to. I can have sex forever. Ultimately I have cum a few times from regular sex - but I am talking it takes a LONG time. When I masturbate I can come rather quickly. In about 5 minutes or so.. I put a cock ring on as that seems to do something for me.
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Unfortunately, you're partner's ... uh ... girl parts can't put as much pressure on you as you can with your hand. The first thing I would suggest is a moratorium from masturbation. Completely. Hands off Mister! No masturbation for some time and you may start to get that sensitivity back.
And again, if you're taking an antidepressant, that can also be the problem so you might talk to your doctor about that if you are on one.