I agree with what Open Eyes says and will add that I think "easier" is a term that YOU need to define for yourself. The first 50 years of my life I could not address or understand the fallout of my early trauma. I think that it does get easier once you understand that there is fallout and learn what tools work for you if you are triggered. Knowledge gives me the strength and tools to use when something happens.
Another aspect that you can look at are the developments that have been made in the last 50 years. I am thankful everyday that there are more resources available today for our children, vets and anyone else that has a trauma in their life. To me this does mean that it does get easier.
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