wow sab,

thankyou, that really helped me the way i have felt today. you havemade me feel stronger just by reading that. my situation was and is similar, we have to try and let go, i know, what we carry will slow us down, but yes - we will do it and we'll do it together

thankyou so much jinnyannxxxx

life is like a flower, you have to push your way up through top soil and often manure to blossom.....

we are stronger people because of abuse, and our children are lucky because we are aware of the dangers, that in itself is a positive thing to come out of a negative. take care (((((hugs))))