You're only 23. You've got loads of time to work on yourself and get out there and find someone. Don't end up like me. I'm now 57. Short, fat and bald . Nobody wants me now or has ever done. The way i'm feeling now is that i don't want to go on much longer like this so i can't see myself getting much past 60. Have confidence in yourself ( people like confidant people ) do things you enjoy. Unless you've had all the disadvantages that i've had i'm sure you'll find someone.