Well, cuz you have to live with yourself. It sounds like part of what you're talking about is that you don't necessarily agree with some ethics or rules that are being demanded or handed down to you? And that is correct - that is part of growing up, deciding what values to accept or reject. So you decide what values you want to live by, and presumably you would expect similar values from those closest to you - a romantic partner, a business partner, how you would raise your children.
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