Thank you! I knew i wasnt crazy! When my t told me that his step mother's name was hankster (i know, odd name for a stepmom!) I was so upset i completely put it out of my mind! He told me again a year or so later, and since then i have been bugging him to get a heart tattoo with a nice H in it. Little different being his stepmom - i would try the nickname route. I always thought it was creepy that jfk jr married someone with his sister's name. I couldnt with my brothers name.