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Originally Posted by speedbird
Hi guys, just want to let you all know that I've considered what you said.
With that being said...this son of a ***** really needs a lesson taught. He told me that my words can't affect him, because I am worth nothing to him. How can I destroy his life? How can I make him like me, maybe even worse?
This was not the first fight we had. Ever since last summer he's been giving me nothing but trouble. At this point, I'm just fed up.
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You seem to have nothing but anger toward this person.
They have a toxic presence in your life.
No matter where any "blame" may or may not fall, this is probably not the time to have any kind of friendship with this person.
Neither of you can handle it, clearly.
That is not a judgement of character toward either of you- I don't know you, it can't be- but you seem dead set on now hurting this person... who is supposed to be your friend?
Friends don't keep score with hurt-for-hurt, so whatever role you actually assign this person in your life, they aren't really a friend, and certainly it is not a health relationship to have at this time.
You should be focusing on yourself, really.
If someone made me feel like crap for such a long time, they are not my friend- either they are a blood relative I can not cut loose or at this point they have been made a complete stranger.