Go meet her. If you really like her your brain will work out the cognitive weirdness.

REALLY REALLY.
GO MEET THIS GIRL if you feel like you have such a strong connection with her.

Don't bring up the name thing, go with the assumption that it is a bump in the road and will smooth out soon [that is the most likely case, really].

GO GO GO!

Don't miss out on this opportunity.
You will be kicking yourself into eternity.

Signed,
OKCupidVet