i don't agree with you, totally, sky..........i don't believe we can compare experiences with others and reason that that is why they can't answer our posts with support. i'd be more inclined to look inward to ask myself what am i really asking for? there could be a variety of things that i'm wanting that i need to understand about myself before i can expect others to understand my needs.

posting for responses instead of reactions works pretty well. i try very hard to always respond........but when i do react, i usually screw up......and that works both ways.

and as far as how others think......that's pretty abstract. thinking is just that......thinking.......it depends upon so many factors in any one given moment that that is pretty "iffy" here. no one here is perfect......no one is any better than anyone else on any given day. so, we all come together and take what we can use and give more than we thought we could and grow.

i'm sorry that your needs aren't being met here. you certainly put in a lot of time and effort. let me know if i can help you.......pat