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Originally Posted by I.Am.The.End.
And while I'm a nice, non-judgmental person, if I feel like a guy is even toeing the line of being offensive/disrespectful etc. etc., s*** is going to get real. Very quickly. I've been trained to see men as the enemy until they prove otherwise. And I'm not going to change that attitude because I don't want to be seen as a possible victim ever again.
I really wish that I was straight-up lesbian because then I wouldn't automatically hate one of the genders I'm attracted to.
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Hmm ... I don't think this is about guys being jerks about sex. Could it be more that you need more work to overcome the events in your past?
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Originally Posted by I.Am.The.End.
And while I'm a nice, non-judgmental person ...
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Originally Posted by I.Am.The.End.
I've been trained to see men as the enemy until they prove otherwise. And I'm not going to change that attitude because I don't want to be seen as a possible victim ever again.
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You say you're not judgmental, but then add that men are the enemy unless proven otherwise. Maybe you're seeing proof that they are the enemy instead of seeing them as individuals? That guy X is a jerk and guy Y is actually a kind and caring person?