well I question why you would think to get reinvolved with someone who has hurt you in the past, that you know lies to you, and continues to bring drama to your life? I can see t's point, but I ask why set your self up to be in that position in the first place? it doesn't sound like bf has very good character and does that sound like someone you want in your life. it has already put you in a position to do something that went against your ethics and morals to check up on him. is this the type of life you want to lead? really think about these things before you proceed in this relationship. take care.