Roman read my mind...

With every girl thread you post you also explain a series of road blocks which prevent you from actually talkng to her. Road blocks which you so eloquently more often than not, create for yourself.

I'm not saying you don't have a legitimate issue with anxiety or shyness or anything else that plays a role, but you also really do have a habit of not even trying.

Stop making excuses and meet this girl. How many girls have you clicked with? How many girls have expressed a genuine interest in you? And with just how many of these girls have you actually persued a relationship?

Look. I know its weird, I would personally walk in the opposite direction if a dude introduced himself as Gary, buuuut. You've long passed intros and you already like her and she already wants to get to know you. So if you walk away now, you're either up to some massive first class self-sabotaging or you're just not that into her.

You decide which motivation is behind your hesitation.

I know quite a few people who married or are dating partners with sibling or parental names. So while it would take a few of us like you and I some getting used to, its not at all uncommon in the general population.

There are ways for your brain to do some gymnastics around this, question is, do you really want it to?