in her defense I didn't say anything until the end of the session. it is more that she said she will not bring up what she suggested we try next session that I will need to bring it up. I cant so we will sit there in silence again and I cant do it .none of it. I did call her so probably destroyed even that avenue of communication . my hubby just brought up a paper that said top secrete note inside.i opened it up and it said I love you