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Originally Posted by hvert
I like the idea that her behavior leaves no room for friendship. It's not just the talking. I don't really know how to explain it, but she offers me favors I don't want (or accept). I think in her mind, this means we are even if she asks me to do those things for her (which I generally don't).
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I've been tempted to speak with her family, but I've never met them. I think I could find contact info for her daughter or sister, but I would worry that they would report the conversation.
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That behaviour sounds manipulative.
Report the conversation to her? Well, that would be unfortunate, but you're not in control of what they do, and if you asked it'd only be in a caring way, right? But whatever you do is okay, and she'll be okay.