Hi, I am new to this page and forum so please bear with me. To cut a long story short I am partnered with a man i suspect of having a sexual addiction to porn & masturbation, he is knows that I am aware of it but will deny constantly, I have also thought that he mayy have begaun acting out (seeing others). I have been pushing him for honesty lately in regards to the porn/masturbation and still with no honest answers. We have become distant and are arguing a lot, I sent him a text yesterday and requested that he write me a letter telling me how he feels. He replied with a comment about I am not having an affair or seeing anyone else, he also then again said I know you think I'm having an affair.
This comment has sent me into a frenzy, I have not accused, asked or broached the subject of an affair, why would he say that? Any ideas? Is he gaslighting and sending me on a different path?