I don't think anyone is at fault in your relationship with your trauma T. You've only been with her for 4 months - and how regularly do you see her? Is it weekly? If it's not weekly, then you really, really, haven't spent much time with her yet. Even weekly isn't much.

I'm not sure about you, but I know that if I was going to be seeing a specialist for a certain issue... I'd probably close up even more than normal and be on the defensive. I'm fairly resistant to trusting people... and the thought of having to dive in with more serious issues would throw up roadblocks as it would feel like it was too much too soon. Is it like that for you at all with your trauma T?

I think switching trauma Ts, at least right now, is a horrible idea. You're transitioning back into your normal life and you've already got two big changes on top of that - you've got the loss of roommates, and you've got the addition of the huge attachment to your LCM. I think throwing in more change, especially when there's nothing showing that it's hugely necessary, would be a really poor choice.