I would think about whether I wanted an attachment to TT or not? If you are just going along with the program to be a good client and go along with the program. . . it is not likely you will ever form an attachment to this therapist, even if she were nice and friendly, etc. Or, too, if you are not crazy about doing trauma work, that would be another reason you might not want to attach to TT.

I love the expression, "Fix the problem, not the blame". Whose fault it is may be yours, hers, ours, in any proportion, but what difference does that make? I would maybe try someone else, see if you attach well enough to them or not and then you'll know more? Or, I would ignore the whole attach thing and just start working as best I could, talking about things; picking a very small, discreet, incident to talk about ("He had really nice, soft, hair; I remember thinking I shouldn't like it but I did") and see if I could learn/open up a bit that way.