yeah, maybe i'll make a list of all the things that i'm dealing with and then decide what order to talk about them. like start with the depression cause her family has a history of it so she has some experience there. then maybe move on to some other things like self harm and the eating. though most of the things i'm dealing with she has either dealt with herself or a close family member has dealt with. she knows about my self harm and depression, and though i've never outright told her about my eating problems, i haven't exactly hidden them (i've made comments about being fat and how my dad would call me fat)