Welcome, it was nice to see you in chat last night. Chat is a great place to ask questions, vent or come just to give your mind a break. Hope some of the suggestions I had last night help at least a little. I can so relate to the situation you are dealing with. I applaud you for reaching out on behalf of your gf and taking an opportunity to reach out and receive help for your self as well. Hope to see ya around again some time soon. Keep your head up, Keep working on things, it has to get better.