I'm dealing with an issue that I feel so lost. I love my boyfriend beyond words yet I hate him from keeping the fact that he found out he has a child from a woman he slept with before him and I ever met. In late September of last year he found out about her and kept that from me for two and a half months. He didn't know she was pregnant because they didn't talk after their one night stand. I'm not upset that he has a child because mistakes happen like that and sometimes woman like her keep that a secret for their own selfish reasons. What I am upset about is he kept that from me. Now I don't trust him and think that him and her will try to work things out for their child. I feel insecure, lost, confused, and disappointed. I feel this way only when he has to go visit his little girl. It angers me. Him and I live together and were starting a future together and now I'm not so sure about that. He is honestly though I fantastic man he treats me like I've always wanted to be treat (minus the not telling me part) but before he found out he was a dad him and I had a great relationship and I fell in love with him.