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Old Feb 15, 2007, 07:06 PM
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We have just gone through an active discussion which has many roots that are unknown to me. So I can't help with the blocking of posts and threads, but there seems that several posters are disappointed with the quality, helpfulness, and constructiveness of many posts on this forum.

I'd like to raise a question: What percentage of posters on this forum are giving Empathy Responses? As I have mentioned before therapists often (maybe 90% or more of the time) make empathy comments that make the talker feel understood and comfortable with the therapist. Empathy responding opens up the discussion of the real problems underneath and of the possible solutions to the problems.

I'd encourage many of you to read about Empathy Responses (starting on page 8 of Chapter 13) and try to use them when responding and helping a fellow forum member (even the ones that irritate you). Please tell us your experience with this kind of response on this forum.

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