Welcome to this place ,
What are you hurting about? If you explain, perhaps one of our members can offer some support, suggestions and/or opinions. "God" if that is your belief, religion is one thing we keep away from at our forums as well as politics, those are 2 subjects that can lead to heated discussions, but I want to tell you "he" doesn't allow people to hurt nor makes bad things happen to people, so I have been told by many people including clergy.
It is us humans that are capable of these things, and something we need to avoid doing, hurting and hurting others, unfortunately I think that been a challenge since the begining of man. In life so many events take place, some good and some bad, most of us can not always predict what our lives hold for us, it is a matter of us following the journey if we so choose, in fact it is the mystery of it all that can make our travel exciting, beautiful even though there will be rough crags in the road, I personally have chosen to continue my journey and accept those rough spots are sometimes unavoidable but we do get past them over time and persaverance (sp?).
Not knowing enough about you and not getting enough from your post it is kind of hard to tell what you are referring to.
I do hope I have given you something to think about, if you haven't already.
Post more, there are fantastic , compassionate, and supportive people that come to the forums that would be than happy to talk with you.
Take care now,
DE

In giving advice seek to help, not please your friend
SOLON