I knew a few people like this, all take and no give. I had to remove them from my life. They were never happy for me. They were never worried for me. They would outdo me with their woes when quite honestly they had teeny ones. They would make use of me. Especially as Im very giving. Its nothing to me to help someone and they knew it.
I know someone now that is a bit of a problem bit as I hardly see them its ok. If my leg dropped off and I told them, they uh uh and then say `well Ive had really bad toothache' They also have me around for `lunch' when they need help with something.
You need to cut off, abruptly and you will feel so much better. I promise.
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