Depends on if you're an optimist or a pessimist. Is the glass half empty or half full? You have this "condition" and there is a "cure" - you wont end up like it never happened, but you can end up better than when you started. If you hit bottom, you dont have to stay there. How your family of origin or whoever saw you, doesnt have to define who you are for the rest of your life. That was just chance, who you were born to. Now it's your choice, what to do next.