Hi Team,

Myself & the guy whom i am gonna marry next month are facing serious relationship issues which needs to be solve before marriage to avoid further problems. Kindly help us & provide ur valuable suggestion which helps to lead a gud lyf.

My character:Talkative,Lively,Multi talented, Enjoying every seconds of life in present, Taking things lite,Wanna learn new things & update our self for betterment of next generation,Learning from other's Experience. My family side all will give priority for my happiness whatever may be the rules & regulations they wnt bother. My mom is working women which helped me to face any issue independently.

My guy character: Exactly opposite of mine in all aspects. He is good in all aspects from his point of view but when its comes into relationship everything is adversely changed affecting myself & himself also.

Some Scenarios which we are facing:

He is taking all small things as that much serious & reacting to me on that much anger. Even though he itself knows his behavior of that kind is wrong. Small small things in day-to-day life are making us hurting more & more.

Ex: Focusing on others thought mainly: If i talk more infront of any of his relatives,he is feeling that they will think i am dominating him so he used to order me for each & everything then he will scold me.He will take good care but I have to follow whatever he said.

Creating Dependency: As his family side all are housewives, he always wanted me also to be dependent able for his thoughts which hurts me more not able to express any of my suggestions while taking many decisions & at last he will implement his idea as final.

Wasting Present & saving for future: Always thinking for the future & saving the money for kids. Even though acceptable but enjoying the present life also imp which i feel. Not giving importance for any of our birthdays, DJ’s, Loveable moments… I Thought To Sit & Talk but where he is not spending time as we are away.

As I am multitalented, I wished my guy to encourage in all aspects as few will be blessed with creativity I feel . but he is not interested in any of things not even encouraging me & not even bothering abt that.

ANGER EXTREME: Whenever I argued these things, he will point my family members which adds fuel to the fire, Insulting me in front of his relatives & his brother, Staying Away by not talking @last HE WILL HURT HIMSELF by taking cigar & beer which I hate to the core. He will shout & wander in bike then he will realize.

Whenever we are intimate, He will make me happy & I also feel happy out of all things forgetting all his angry behavior.

I too know he loves me a lot & vice versa but this thing needs to be solved. Kindly advice how to change his angry behavior & making him to understand that a gal also has a wish to spread her wings.