I think of my T as like a coworker in a way. Probably because I'm friends with one of his coworkers, and work with one of his old coworkers. haha.

I think that my T is the opposite of my brother. My T can give off the vibe of being a bit of a jerk, but inside he's quite kind and wouldn't intend to upset someone. I also think that he has a slightly mean sense of humour, but that I think he means it in a self-insulting way. I respect him and think that he is good at his job.

And if it came up, I would be honest and tell him that.