Everyone has their limits; Sometimes I don't know how my b/f puts up with me and vise versa. No one's behavior is anyone else's fault ~ we're all responsible for our own actions. I have broken things in my rages and I get so disgusted with myself, it's not something I've ever done before or want to do again. But we need to be forgiving of ourselves as that is pertinent to our being a work in progress and we still maintain our better qualities too we can't forget about.