I told my T that I don't like it when he gives me positive feedback when I tell him about the good things going on in my life. So then he told me I could tell him positive things and he wouldn't give me the feedback, if I wanted. But then when I told him about some positive things that have happened lately, he didn't say anything back so I was like, "well I don't like that either!" LOL
But then I also told him that he is too blank-slatey for me (Well he asked me to be blunt) but he didn't offer to change that one /:
We do very much have a relationship-oriented therapy. I appreciate his willingness to ask for and give feedback. As uncomfortable as it gets, I think it's what I truly need.
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