(((((jinnyann)))))
It's hard to believe that our friends can't possibly feel the pain and anguish that we are going through. They can sympathize and empathize, but our pain is just that, ours. I've learned through the years that things are said in one fashion can be taken by the recipient in a totally different light. Especially if it is the written word and not face to face. We loose the facial expression and voice inflection and may take it the wrong way. I hope that is the case here and that you are right, she didn't mean it in a hurtful way.
I do hope you can get the rest that you so desparately need. Not sleeping really stinks
Hugssssssss
Jean