I felt it relevant to bump this as another thread mentioned "emotional vampires". I don't want to be one, but I feel like I'd have to tell all my friends to move on. I couldn't have friends at all or any kind of relationship. I'm just rarely in a place myself where I could really help someone else out. And even if I can, I don't know how to.

So, is that why this thread originally didn't get many responses? Because I'm considered bad or possibly even evil because I don't know how to fairly balance relationships?