I actually had to do an assignment about this last week. I'm stuck with my T atm, so I had to define my ideal version of her, the devalued version of her, and who she is realistically. Ideal was easy. Devauled was easy. Positive reality was easy. Realistic flaws...difficult. My T actually had to come up with most of her own flaws...lol.

Sadly...I'm still stuck with my T...and I hated that assignment. But I learned some new things about my T