There is always the option of telling T was you told us. That you sense that she feels left out or hurt--and if true you really want her to get past that because you still do need her and are relying on her. Do you think that this T can get past it and help out as you describe?

No mention of TT in your last post. Wouldn't TT logically have a role to play? Maybe you are "supposed to be better", but I doubt that TT expects you to be fully better 100% of the time so soon after being in the hospital.