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Old Jan 17, 2014, 06:25 AM
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Originally Posted by Mactastic View Post
I have been in T for 6 months. This is my first go, so I have nothing to compare my experience to. I can say with confidence I am "in the weeds" with my T. It took me a very long time to open up and so in many ways I feel like we're just getting started. I am certain my termination isn't right around the corner.

Two months in, I started getting attached and I freaked out. I discussed this in sessions. He always reminds me that termination doesn't have to be devastating, even though it will hurt. He did say some things that soothed me.

But I still can't stop thinking about it. I think what's bugging me is that I don't know if I'm looking at 6 more weeks of therapy or 6 more months. More? I have no idea what his vision is for me. Part of me wants to know, part of me is scared his vision is much shorter than mine

Has anyone brought up their own termination timeline?
Perhaps you are looking too far ahead?
Therapy is a journey of EXPLORATION. You don't know where you will end up.

PS: Have you asked him what his plan is?
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