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Originally Posted by the lone wolf
"A wolf caught in a trap will chew off its own leg just to survive." Not only is this actually true, but it sends an important message. It means that in order to move forward you need to cut away whatever is holding you back. This can mean ending friendships, dropping out of school, quitting a job, etc.
For me this has been happening more and more lately. I've ended so many friendships lately just to protect myself from anything that can hurt me, but now im alone. I pretty much have no more friends now. I just wish that I can find friends that i can count on to be there for me.
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I have almost no friends at this point in my life either. It's extremely lonely. I feel for you. My solution will be to move soon and find a place where there are more people. It's the only way I can cope is to have that to look forward to. Perhaps you can create a vision of a future you'd like to have and start taking steps to make it happen. I'd like to someday live in San Francisco, for instance, so this summer, if I can find a really cheap flight I am going there and going to bang on some doors of places that might employ me. I can't move anywhere without knowing I have somewhat secure employment. I did this last summer and it worked. I now have a gig connected with that city. On days I'm depressed, nothing lifts my spirits, but being with a good friend, so I hope you make some friends soon. Are you young? Do you live around a lot of people? You'll meet people soon enough and look back at this phase and try to forget it!