Useless, please don't leave. We all go through hard times and misuderstandings. May I tell you a short incident? A few months ago, I was going through a really hard time, and was seriously thinking of hurting myself. Well, I posted about my thoughts and feelings. Well, the next day a moderator had put a TRIGGER icon on my post. I did not understand at the time why this was done. I sent a PM to the moderator to get a better understanding. After sending two PMs I came to realize that Psych Central was not only a place of support, but also a place of responsibility. Now, I try to carefully word my posts, so that I say what I need to say, as well as respecting those who may be having a harder time coping than I am.