Good luck, ECHOES!

I think you have learned a lot from your latest T about what you do and don't want in therapy. Can you articulate that in your first interview with the new T? That you want someone who is willing to talk to you (seems so basic)? Someone who can give affirmations? Someone with whom you can establish a close therapeutic relationship? Please don't settle for someone who cannot provide those basic things. It is much easier to tell a potential T "no" at the outset than after you have invested a few months. So if this new one doesn't seem right, move on to interview another one.

At the very least, please hold out for someone who will talk to you!