Yes I agree its my responsibilty to choose the direction, and have always done so. T has never been the type to make things easy LOL, but still I don't see it as my, it is still a we. She is on this journey with me, and we all effect each other. Maybe its just the choice of words that aren't comfortable with me.

I find it hard enought to let T get close and for me, by saying my therapy, it just feels even more "Isolated". I need to get used to "we" in life, for to long I went through life oblivious to others and their feelings. IT was just I,self,me . Now I'm in a real working relationship with another. Do I make sense? LOL I doubt it LOL