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Old Jan 17, 2014, 05:39 PM
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Originally Posted by mulan View Post
During my childhood my mother never liked me. She disliked my personality which she had created. I start avoiding any intimate contact with anyone. Now I don't know who I really am.
I'm so sorry about what you experienced (and what you did not experience) at the hands of your parents. I agree with you; the roots of the way you feel now are in your childhood.

I also agree that though therapy may help in some ways, it cannot erase your childhood and upbringing. Nevertheless, the help you can get from therapists and others may be able to set you on a path to a desirable future.

Please try to keep reaching out.
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Thanks for this!
mulan