I think it was pretty brave of you to come to Earth in the first place so who cares about the honor we get here. You should try to do some of the things you want to do before you leave this place, you might regret it if you don't. Hopefully your girl will see the forest through the trees and give you a good time. Maybe it will make you feel better just to be heard and understood, just accepted. Even if you don't feel it, just pretend that it is true. That's what Gatsby did and they all said he was great.