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Originally Posted by always_wondering
I have been to my T for over two years now. My therapy goes in waves. At first I wasn't attached then I was super attached. I can't believe it now but I think I'm beginning to get un-attached. Always wonder when I should call this thing off. I've tried and failed. But now that I don't feel so attached anymore I think I might be able to let go. I have discussed this with my T and he is not in agreement with me. I sometimes wonder if this is because he really feels I have unfinished business or I am a good, steady customer. I do hope it's for the right reason. I was thinking about this today, its like so many things in life. You will know when it is time to terminate when it hits you. The bell will go off and you will do it. Just let it progress naturally. You will know.
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Funny, that's exactly what my T said to me when I was worried I wouldn't know when I was ready to leave. He simply said to me, "Mactastic, you'll know, you'll just know." I wonder here if he's speaking from experience. I know he was in therapy two years (and so he must have developed a relationship to his T, no?) and knew when it was time to end?