Possible TRIGGER

"You have never been raped because rape would have taken place if you had been physically forced and you have never fought or defended yourself, and it doesn't matter that you were only few years old, even babies can defend themselves by crying but you didn't cry."

Maybe it was not very insensitive but I took it as playing down the importance of my experiences or maybe even blaming me for not doing anything...

Once when my pdoc was referencing my past csa he said "if I haul off and slap you across the face and it hurts you right now, that is my fault for hurting you. If that slap in the face still hurts 20 years from now, that is your fault and is on you."

I didn't like that so much.