I ignored my gut instinct about my last T. I wasted 7 months with her trying to find some semblance of warmth and it just never happened. I liked her and she was good at her job but just too clinical for me.

So your gut instinct is giving you important information but you sound like you were quite closed down in that session, plus having two therapists in the same room plus the sadness you have about T leaving is a lot of information swirling around, so i'd definitely give this new T a few session where it's just you and her to get a proper feel for things.