My suggestion is to make friends here, among other borderlines and just people in general. We do understand and we're not constantly in crisis. I am in a similar situation. I am completely divorced from my immediate family. My mom disowned me several years ago. I am in a marriage I have to dissolve one way or another, and about a year and a half ago, I moved 2,600 miles from everything and everyone I know. I also work an at home job so I haven't been able to meet anyone.

Stretch out your tenacles here a bit. Allow people to befriend you and keep in touch with them, and you never know what may happen. I have developed a few friendships from here that I never thought possible that I hope will last a long time. They are the only friendships I have.