I wanted to agree with RQ. My current T, I wasn't really sure about him for the first few sessions because he seemed "slow". What I realized was that he was genuinely taking the time to consider the questions I presented or taking the time to digest what I had shared before responding. Had I not waited it out, I never would have known and would have waiting out on the best T-relationship I've had.

You were in a really awkward position in the first place, with two T's in a room!