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Old Feb 16, 2007, 08:36 PM
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Hi and thanks for your responses, well I did what you suggested and gave him my heartfelt thanks, it really was the right thing to do.
At the end of it he said he would have liked to work together longer with me (not because I needed it but he enjoyed it). So that was really neat to hear.
OK now the transference is kicking in. Too late for me to enjoy it now! I'm done! Boo hoo! So, now the question, how to get over belated transference - when I know I'm not going to see him again or probably ever talk to him again. I'm convinced therapy sets you up to fall for your therapist eventually , no matter what. With some exceptions of course.
But this really really is a big pain. I didn't have those feelings in the sessions. Only now since we're done. Why did it happen after we're all done? I can't figure it out.