since i don't really know the circumstances under which this has happened all i can really suggest is that you just go on about your business, concentrate on your own family and friends, and try not to let it bother you-- if they're so inconsiderate that they're willing to shut you out, try not to let it get you down, because they might be happy to see they've broken you down with their hatred. don't let it happen.

keep your chin up,
ghost