It takes a lot to run a big ship like this. That is why I'm not just here, I prefer smaller groups where you learn to know who is who. It can get strict and impersonal at a big place. Not that I would know a better way.

As for all other sites being bad, I feel offended, I run a small and cozy site since 2002 and we have never really wronged anyone. The problem is that people WANT big places but they don't want the effect of a big place. They want the coziness of a small place but the activity level of a big place.